Looking for a true inspiration? Looking for something to brighten your day? That was me, during Winter Break. I was answering one of those self-analysis questions in The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens book by Sean Covey. The question stated, “describe a time when you were inspired.” Sure, I try to be inspired everyday. This question made me stop in my tracks, because this was not ordinary inspiration that crossed the sidewalk by the moon cycle. I interpreted this inspiration as something that helps guide you in life. So let me ask you: describe a time when you were inspired.
MY INSPIRATION
Lizzie Velasquez was born in Texas in the year 1989. She was different from the start, and her parents knew this after she was born. The doctors had warned her anxious parents of how she would never be able to walk, talk or crawl. Yet, Guadalupe and Rita Velasquez were determined to raise Lizzie normally. She weighed two pounds at birth. Currently, at age 26, she has never weighed more than 64 pounds because she physically CANNOT gain weight. Another side effect of her syndrome is having one blind eye.
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Did Guadalupe and Rita care? No. They raised their first child “‘150% normally,’” as Lizzie says in her TEDtalk. The problem with being 150% normal in a household, is that the extra 50% made Lizzie oblivious to her differences due to her syndrome. To this day, only two other people in the world have been recognized with this disorder of not being able to gain weight, and even doctors do not fully understand its potential. Lizzie’s first day of Kindergarten brought consciousness to her appearance.
She asked her parents why kids always ran away from her. Finally revealing the known facts of her non-ubiquitous syndrome, Lizzie began to see herself differently. She says she could choose between happiness and giving up. Growing up with a few trustworthy friends, she choose to be happy with what she was given and make the most of it.
Do you ever procrastinate while doing homework, work, or whatever? Yeah, I bet. Where do you go when you procrastinate? To the bathroom, kitchen, Youtube, True Value Hardware Store? When Lizzie was 17 years old, she procrastinated while doing homework. She visited Youtube and was randomly browsing some videos. On the right hand column, there are “related videos.” She was scrolling down the list when a title caught her eye. It said, “The World’s Ugliest Woman.” Naively and curiously, she clicked on the name, bringing her to a short, eight second video with no sound, four million views and thousands of comments. Lizzie’s heart stopped at this point, due partially to the fact that some austere comments that said “Just shoot me now from her ugliness,” or “She’s permanently blinding me!,” but mainly because these eight seconds4 were debuting her face.
Once again, Lizzie says in her TEDtalk she could choose between happiness and giving up. She choose happiness. She is currently a leader in anti-bullying and often visits kids who are feeling similarly to her as a child. She says that the negative videos of imbued power in her mind. On bad days,
THIS VALENTINE’S DAY AND MOST DAYS…
I challenge everyone to respect themselves and find their own journey to travel. Are you feeling compelled to listen to your friends because you want to remain popular? Are you feeling oppression in the office because others think you’re not capable? Don’t mind what others title you. Whether it’s “Nerd,” “Jock” or “World’s Ugliest Woman” everyone has the potential to lead the life they want. By listening or believing what others call you, you may as well live their lives. Lizzie’s doctors believed she couldn’t do anything when she was older. However, she has defied this confinement and is now the author of three books and a leader in anti-bullying. There is also a tie to self confidence. There is a great sensation of accomplishment when you find the discretion to live by your own means, not judging yourself and living beyond the manacles that hinder you from being fully expressive. If a woman like Lizzie Velasquez, who has a physical syndrome that makes her different from others, could love herself, I’m sure this Valentine’s Day and most days, you can love yourself for being you.
Link to TEDtalk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sohGDfNQV7M
Books: Lizzie Beautiful
Choosing Happiness
Be Beautiful, Be You
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